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What Sins of the Tongue Reveal

This morning in our Sonship phone discipleship hour, our discipler had us read two paragraphs from the Sonship manual in light of las week's "Tongue Assignment."  Here is the first of the paragraphs.  Read it. Weep. Repent. And believe the gospel afresh!

"Our tongues... show us how spiritually proud and self-righteous we are. For example, my critial tongue often reveals a heart that is sadly out of touch with how much I have received grace, love and forgiveness. I know this because it is not loving things that are overflowing through my tongue, but instead a spirit of being better and knowing better than others. I am right and they are wrong, and I need to point it out so everyone is clear about it. I complain because I know that I am right and everyone else is wrong. Likewise, my instinctive defensiveness and inability to apologize sincerely and quickly demonstrates that I am not really trusting in Christ to be my reputation and righteousness. I must uphold my good record of performance before others. I need people to know that I am better than they think (when in fact I can safely say I am actually worse than they think!). These and other failures prove how easily I slip away from living out of the gospel."

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The Infamous Sonship Tongue Assignment

Kristy and I had our first phone appointment yesterday with our Sonship discipler, Stu Batstone. One big take-away from our time is that this 8 month Sonship course should be considered an "inductive heart study."  We are to examine the underlying motives of what we do, say and feel, understanding in what ways we are dominated by the flesh rather than led by the Spirit. And then, diagnosing our heart problems, we can apply the gospel, living by faith in the imputed righteousness of Jesus. Anyway, one way to have the heart opened to the depth of the flesh is to participate in the infamous Sonship Tongue Assignment. We began the assignment yesterday. It wasn't long before we were shattering these laws. Yikes!  Of course the goal is to see our need for a Savior and believe the gospel afresh. Why not try to keep these laws for a week, or just for a day. Be prepared to run quickly to Jesus. :)

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Fight Club Notes on Galatians 4:3-7 • From Slavery to Sonship

Fight Club ’09

Round 4 • Galatians 4:3-7 / “Adoption: From Slavery to Sonship”

3 In the same way we also, when we were children, were enslaved to the elementary principles of the world. 4 But when the fullness of time had come, God sent forth his Son, born of woman, born under the law, 5 to redeem those who were under the law, so that we might receive adoption as sons. 6 And because you are sons, God has sent the Spirit of his Son into our hearts, crying, “Abba! Father!” 7 So you are no longer a slave, but a son, and if a son, then an heir through God. (ESV)


I.  The Gospel Has Legal, Relational, Existential and Eschatological Aspects 

  • Justification
  • Adoption
  • Sanctification
  • Glorification

II. How does human adoption work?  How is this an analogy for spiritual adoption?

III. A Key Passage in the Bible- Galatians 4:3-7 

  • v. 3- Before sonship (“Formerly”- v. 8)
  • v. 4- The fullness of time
  • v. 5- Redemption (I am no longer a servant/slave!)
  • v. 6- The Spirit —> “Abba”
  • v. 7- An heir of God
  • * See also Ephesians 1:3-14

IV. Implications and Applications...

  • What are symptoms of spiritual orphanhood or slavery?
  • What will it mean for me to “live like a child”?
  • How does spiritual adoption deal with issues of identity?
  • How does it relate to prayer? (read A Praying Life by Paul Miller- wow, what a great, helpful book!)
  • Where am I on the slave vs. son continuum?

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Sonship Week for ministry leaders is coming up

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The Freedom to Fail

Each month I attend the North Georgia New Church Network, a group of church planters and church planting coaches who meet to consult with, pray for and equip each other as missionaries to our small part of the world. During our prayer time at our last meeting, we were challenged to confess a particular fear that robs us of joy, peace and hope. My confession was the fear of failure—the fear that the church plant I am about to lead will crash and burn. But my fear really is much deeper than failure, which actually is just a fruit of a deeper root issue. I really fear what will happen to my name. My reputation. However, the gospel teaches me that in light of the cross, my name is already mud. The cross says that I have failed far worse than I think! In fact, I'm such a mess that Jesus had to live and die for my failure.

But you know, I'm okay with being a failure in the past. But I don't like having to be helpless, weak and needy now. I want to move past my own present and complete need for a Savior-Sanctifier-Empowerer. But that is what the gospel gives me. Through the sheer grace of God in Jesus, I have been given a new reputation and identity that cannot be smeared: I am an extravagantly loved, forgiven, propitiated, justified, redeemed, adopted son of the King. Knowing that gives me a radical freedom. Freedom from the judgement and penalty of sin, and freedom to pursue wild adventures that can only succeed if God allows. And so, whether the church grows to maturity, or withers and dies, either way, by sheer grace, I am an extravagantly loved, forgiven, propitiated, justified, redeemed, adopted son of the King. That's what Paul says so clearly when he writes in Romans 8, "For you did not receive the spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you have received the Spirit of adoption as sons..."

In the gospel, there is freedom to fail. So in these next weeks, months and years, I am pursuing the risky adventure of church planting, taking God up on his promise.

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